Islam's stand on woman is a highly
contentious issue. It is more so for those people who are not
Muslims. They often want to know what rights and privileges Islam
has granted to woman, a question that arises out of the claim that
Islam is the latest and the modern religion of the world. The
question becomes very important, when it is considered from the
standpoint of Allah's claim. He is believed to have claimed that
it is He who has established Islam and that, among all the
religions of the world, Islam is the perfect one, which all humans
should follow, if they want to earn His pleasure, and heaven in
their next life.
But is Islam truly a perfect religion and does it require its
followers to treat their women in the manner all humans are
supposed to be treated? We need to examine the teachings of Islam
to answer these critical questions as clearly as it is possible.
Above questions have perplexed many people in the past; it keeps
on perplexing people of our time as well. And this perplexity
emanated in the past, and it continues to emanate in our own time
from certain claims Muslim Apologists make on the treatment of
women by the people of pre-Islamic days. Those certain claims are
the following:
1. Men in pre-Islamic days did not permit their women to move
freely and to do business:
Even though no one has any documentary evidence to support the
truthfulness of the above claim of the Muslim Apologists, but we
can prove its falsity by relying on what we are able to read in
some of the stories that were written by Muslim writers about the
ways the Pagan men of the pre-Islamic days treated their women.
They also tell us how the Pagan women conducted themselves in
those days.
We learn from those writers that women in pre-Islamic days
composed poems, recited them in the public and won prizes for the
high quality of their compositions. They took part in the affairs
of their cities, invested money in trade and participated in
discussions relating to their investments.
Abu Sofian's wife was a famous woman of her time. She wielded
considerable influence not only over her husband, but also over
other men of
Mecca. She
participated in the battle of Uhud, which was initiated by the
Meccan Pagans for avenging their defeat at the battle of Badr, by
urging them to fight the Muslims with all their might so that
their victory could wash away the shame they had suffered before
at the hands of their enemy.
Abu Sofian's wife could not do what she is said to have done in
the battle of Uhud, if she had no freedom of movement or the right
to take part in a battle. The fact that she was able to go to the
battlefield and mingle with the Pagan soldiers says a lot about
the way the Pagan men treated or respected their women.
Khudeija, Muhammad's first wife, was another woman, who
exemplified the way other women of her time led their lives. She
was rich, and she managed her business not only by employing men,
she also married the man of her choice, who was poor and a
destitute, without facing any opposition from her Pagan society.
Islam took away the above rights from the Muslim women and turned
them into the floor-mats of their men. I will say more on this
issue later.
2. Islam granted women the right of inheritance:
This is another lie Muslim Apologists make use of to deceive not
only the receptive non-Muslims, but also the illiterate and
gullible Muslims. In fact, women before the advent of Islam had
the right to inherit, and this fact is discernible from the Quran
itself. It says:
"If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the
orphans, marry women of your choice, two or three, or four; but if
ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then
only one, or (captive) that your right hand possess. That will be
more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice" (4:3).
The word
[orphans] in the verse denotes female orphans. Since the content
of the verse is not clear, Maulana Abul Ala Mududi explained it in
the following words:
"Commentators
have explained this in the following ways:
(i). There is the view of Aisha who says that men tended to
marry orphan girls who were under their guardianship out of
consideration for either their property, beauty or because they
thought they would be able to treat them according to their whims,
as they had no one to protect them. After marriage, such men
sometimes committed excesses against these girls. It is in this
context that the Muslims are told that if they fear they will not
be able to do justice to the orphan girls, then they should marry
other girls whom they like. (This interpretation seems to be
supported by verse 127 of this surah).
(ii). The second view is that of Ibn Abbas and his disciple
Ikrimah who expressed the opinion that in the Jahiliyah
period {period of ignorance} there was no limit on the number of
wives a man could take. The result was that a man sometimes
married as many as ten women and, when expenses increased because
of a large family, he encroached on the rights either of his
orphan nephews or other relatives. .." (Towards Understanding the
Quran; vol. 1, p. 6).
Though I have a serious problem with the above interpretations of
the verse, yet I have quoted them to prove that the orphan girls
of the Pagan time did, indeed, inherit property from their
parents, otherwise Muhammad would not have stated what we read in
the above verse without laying its foundation. Ibn Abbas and
Ikrimah's statement that the "man of Jahiliyah days
encroached on the rights of his orphan nephews and other
relatives" proves my point.
3. Islam has granted more rights and privileges to woman than any
other religion of the world:
The fact that other religions, which a large number of humans
practice even today, have much more derogatory and inhuman
treatments prescribed for their women is not something that I
should concern myself with, as I am told Allah has replaced all of
them with Islam some fourteen hundred years ago. Knowing what
Allah has said in the Quran, it will be improper for me as well as
for others, who have read the Quran, to compare Islam's teachings
with those of the defunct religions. After all, it is not a right
thing for anyone to compare the teachings of a perfect and modern
religion, as Islam is, with those of the antiquated, corrupted,
ineffective and defunct religions.
Having cleared a huge misconception that occupies the minds and
hearts of the Muslim Apologists in particular and that of the
ordinary Muslims in general, I now want to delve in the Quran to
find out what Allah has told the Muslim men about women and their
abilities and disabilities.
Allah does not like daughters, because (1) they grow up wearing
trinkets and (2) they cannot give a clear account in a dispute
(43:18).
He does not like women, because they are easily susceptible to
forgetfulness and to the commission of errors (2:282).
Because women are not liked by Allah, He granted men a degree of
advantage over them (2:229). Because men have a degree of
advantage over their women, Allah has granted the right of
marriage to Muslim men (2:237). Muslim women cannot marry, it
being the prerogative of their men only.
As because Muslim women have no right to marry, they also do not
have the right to divorce their husbands, even in situations where
they find them to be brute or impotent. Muslim women can gain
their freedom from their husbands only if they are able to induce
them to utter the words of divorce with some gifts or compensation
(2:229).
Because Muslim women are bereft of all essential and important
rights, Allah has authorized the Muslim men to treat them as their
personal property. Here is what He has said about the Muslim
women in the Quran:
"They ask thee concerning women's courses. Say: They are a hurt
and a pollution: So keep away from women in their courses, and do
not approach them until they are clean. But when they have
purified themselves, ye may approach them in any manner, time or
place ordained for you by Allah. For Allah loves those who turn to
Him constantly and He loves those who keep themselves pure and
clean (2:222)."
Without knowing that courses are essential for women to be able to
conceive and to give birth to children, Allah asked Muslim men to
avoid sex with unclean and impure women. But once they have become
pure and clean, Muslim men can engage them in sexual act "in any
manner, time or place" of their choosing. This permission
precludes Muslim men from preparing their women with foreplay.
Which means that Muslim men can rape their women whenever they
choose to commit this crime. Since Muslim men can rape their women
at will, Allah has described Muslim women's status in the
following words:
"Your wives are as a tilth unto you: So approach your tilth
when or how ye will: But do some good act {i.e. pray to Allah} for
your souls beforehand; and fear Allah, and Allah knows that ye are
to meet Him (in the Hereafter) and give (these) good tidings to
those who believe (2:223)."
Maulana Abul Ala Mududi explains the import of the verse thus:
"That is, God's purpose in the creation of women is not merely to
provide men with recreation {note: Only men are entitled to
recreation through sexual act}. Their mutual relationship is like
that between a farmer and his tilth {the word tilth means:
tillage; the physical condition of cultivated soil in relation to
plant growth etc.}. A farmer approaches his field not just for the
sake of pleasure {beg your pardon!}, but to acquire produce."
(Towards Understanding the Quran; Vol. 1, p. 173).
Abdullah Yusuf Ali, one of the respected scholars of Islam, holds
identical opinion on the word [tilth]. But other scholars of
Islam, such as al-Suyuti, say that 'This verse was revealed about
penetrating women in their anus', (True
Guidance, pt. 5, pp. 48-49), hence the
words "ye may approach them in any manner, time or
place" in verse 2:222.
Al-Suyuti's view is confirmed by the following hadith:
Volume 6, Book 60, Number 50:
Narrated
Nafi':
"Whenever
Ibn 'Umar recited the Qur'an, he would not speak to anyone till he
had finished his recitation. Once I held the Qur'an and he recited
Surat-al-Baqara from his memory and then stopped at a certain
Verse and said, 'Do you know in what connection this Verse was
revealed?' I replied, "No." He said, and 'It was revealed in
such-and-such connection.' Ibn 'Umar then resumed his recitation.
Nafi added regarding the verse: 'So go to your tilth when or how
you will' Ibn 'Umar said, "It means one should approach his wife
in .....".
Umar's last sentence is relative to
penetrating women in their anus. He left his statement unfinished,
perhaps, feeling that no dignified man should say that such a
despicable act was sanctioned by Allah.
Prof. Hasan lent credence to my
assumption. He is a translator of Sunaan Abu Dawood. He explained
hadith 2157 by relying on the practice of the Shia: According to
him, Shia men are allowed to have anal intercourse with their
women (Note 1483, Vol. 2, p. 579).
Muhammad, the Prophet of
Islam, echoed exactly what Allah thought about women. Imam Ghazali
reports him saying as: "There will remain no greater danger
for the people after my death than women. Fear the world of
women." (Ihya Uloom ediDin, volume 3, p.86).
Based on what I have discussed in this write up, is there any
reason for any sensible man or woman to say that Islam requires
its male followers to treat their women kindly and humanely and,
also, if Allah a.k.a. Muhammad had any good feeling towards the
weaker sex of the human beings?