Islam Under Scrutiny by Ex-Muslims

Sexual Assaults and Molestation of Girls in Pakistan; My Story


Burqa don't protect from sexual
assaults in Muslim countries.
Women still invite it.

I and my elder sister went to shopping last evening in a posh market in Pakistan, supposed to attract the high gentry. After purchasing our required items, we started looking for a taxi. After five minutes, a cab stopped in front of us. My sister went ahead, bended, and asked from the driver about the fare to our destination. While she was arguing with him, a man of middle age strolled past her, and as he was passing he rammed his hand in the bottom of my sister with full force and ran away. My sister screamed and in the same bended posture fell to the ground. I ran to her, put her into the cab, and just got the hell of out of there full of shame, fury and tears.

This is was not the first time I saw this happened. I myself have experienced such nasty thing multiple times while going to college or market or while walking in the park. Just two months ago, I was in a fun fair in a park in the evening. I was walking from stall to stall, window shopping and enjoying myself. I stopped at the stall of bangles, which was crowded by other females. I was just turning after watching what the rush was about, when someone pulled upon the straps of my undergarments with mighty force, and dumb-founded when I turned I saw no one in sight.

Some years back, when I was studying in the college, our class went on picnic. When we reached there, groups of girls separated and I with my five or six mates went in one directions. Not more than five minutes later, we were surrounded by some 10 to 12 boys, who first invited us with them and upon our stern refusal and anger, they just attacked us. They pinched and spanked us on breasts, hips and where ever they could lay their dirty hands on. We screamed in terror and tried to break away, and fortunately our screamed were heard by other girls and teachers, and as soon as those animals heard others coming, they vanished. I still have those scars on my body and on my soul.

Last year, I went to another city to attend a wedding ceremony. After the wedding I stayed on for two more days to meet and greet the olden friends. On a quite evening, I and one of my friend were taking a walk in front of our house after dinner. As we were walking, two boys on bike came out of nowhere, stopped besides us, one of them embraced my friend while sitting on the back of bike and forcefully kissed and groped her. I and she screamed and tried to breakaway from the Bastard. They both went laughing after one minute.

I bet that every girl has a story or stories like this to tell. But she in our society keeps it to just herself. Whom to tell, and what would be the gain? That is how we are living this life. We cannot tell this to our fathers and brothers, and we cannot fight back. If we speak against it, we are called as sluts and shameless. What do we do? Keeping getting pinched, spanked and groped?

 

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Name: Stewart Davis
Date: Wednesday August 06, 2008
Time: 19:33:50 -0700

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National Geographic had a program on the Quran. One young Muslim woman went on at length how proud she was to be a Muslim and of the respect she was afforded as a woman in her culture. On the contrary I don't think the Muslim world treats women with respect. You said cannot report acts of sexual abuse without being accused of being a whore or slut. This is proof that neither your religion honors you nor your legal system. All you can do is escape to a country that treats you with respect and has laws to deal with brutes such as those you describe.


Name: Pity the poor muslim woman!
Date: Wednesday August 06, 2008
Time: 19:55:26 -0700

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FACTS: 1)A muslim scholar defends the rapes of non-muslim women saying it's their fault! 2)If a man abuses a woman and it's his word against his, he will automatically prevail for in the koran the testimony of one man is equal to two women(sura 4:11). 3)A famous muslim commentator(Ibn-Kathmir) said that a man must not be asked why he beat his wife. This he quotes from a Hadith that reads,"Memorize three things from me, which I memorised from the prophet who said:"The man is not to be asked why he beat his wife."" 4)Sura 4:34(which gives husbands the right to beat their wives as long as no bruises are involved) is quoted by most muslim commentators as:"the above verse was revealed in connection with a woman who complained to Mohammed that her husband slapped her on the face(which was still marked by the slap). At first the prophet said to her:'Get even with him', but then added:'Wait until I think about it."(nothing was done for her). 5)A muslim scholar says the koran instructs all women to wear the turka. 6)A muslim commentator says that a wife must always be ready to serve her husband's sexual desires. In short, a muslim wife has NO rights and is treated as a slave!


Name: Look at Mohammed himself, muslim countries
Date: Wednesday August 06, 2008
Time: 20:27:06 -0700

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Before islamists say that this is an isolated case, let's look at Mohammed himself did and said and look at what any muslim country is like for the muslim woman. MOHAMMED HIMSELF IN A "SACRED" hadith SAID THE WOMAN IS A TOY." He also forced married a 6 year old girl! He had as many wives as he wanted but forbade his followers to only 4! As for muslim countries:In Pakistan a muslim woman is being burned alive each day. If a woman talks with a man alone she can be branded an adulterous and have gasoline thrown on her.When the reporter asked about this the company said to her that this "is an honor." In Egypt, Palestine and other countries non-muslim women have been kidnapped against their will. A woman cannot drive or go out of the house without her husband's permission in most muslim countries. A woman is forced to wear the turka as stated in the koran(AND STILL IS BEING GROPED, MOLESTED AND RAPED!). This is NOT an isolated case. Muslim clerics are defending the rapes of non-muslim women by muslim thugs! TO TREAT A WOMAN ANY DIFERENTLY THAN "a toy" WOULD BE GOING AGAINST WHAT MOHAMMED HIMSELF SAID. There are a few verses that can be lead one to believe there is affection for the wife BUT ONLY IF SHE'S COMPLETELY OBEDIENT AND NEVER DISPLEASES HIM IN ANY WAY. EVEN IF HE "FEARS" REBELLION IN HER HE MAY BEAT HER!(sura 4:34).


Name: Bangla apostate
Date: Wednesday August 06, 2008
Time: 20:41:40 -0700

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I have inquired about this issue with my female friends back in Bangladesh and everyone of them have suffered these kinds of sexual assaults and molestation (some of them lost counts)--which they never dare reporting. Some of them spoke to their mothers only, who advised their daughters to keep their mouth shut to maintain the good-girl image. Else, getting a good boy for marriage would be tough. No less than 80% of my university friends, the scream of countries talents, themselves engaged in these acts without any scruples, but with delight.


Name: a good booklet to read!
Date: Wednesday August 06, 2008
Time: 20:50:50 -0700

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There is a booklet that documents what Mohammed himself, the koran, hadith traditions, muslim commentators and muslim scholars say about women. If more women were aware of this they wouldn't even think about marrying a muslim: Women in Islam c/o VOM P.O. Box 443 Bartlesville, OK 74005 Cost is about 11 bucks plus shipping. --and for any muslim who may say that this may quote muslims and the koran and mohammed,etc out of context, the writers made great efforts to let the facts speak for themself and not to provide hardly any commentary.


Name:
Date: Wednesday August 06, 2008
Time: 22:00:18 -0700

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What is your point? I did not know that Islam should be blamed for people who acted with no moral and social values. Maybe lack of Islam in modern Pakistan is to blame.


Name: who is Amna Gilani?
Date: Wednesday August 06, 2008
Time: 22:08:05 -0700

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http://forum.indya.com/member.php?u=45527


Name: Good story Ma Khan
Date: Wednesday August 06, 2008
Time: 22:20:39 -0700

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WOW “If we speak against it, we are called as sluts and shameless. What do we do? Keeping getting pinched, spanked and groped”?


Name: u slut women,u r filthy menstruating cunts u hv no right to be outside without men
Date: Wednesday August 06, 2008
Time: 23:50:55 -0700

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u muslim women u r not following true islam.u r real sluts.if u r a real muslim woman u menstruating cunt,u shud always go out with men as company and also u shud wear full burka.if u r voilated its always yr mistane and yr fault.never can man ve at fautl,bcoz allah made man supirier to u and he created woman from man's body [ adam's rib ] so,u dare not write read or complain.sit at home like a good muslimia and produce kids for jihad,anything else for u is a waste of time.


Name: woman is created from adam's rib,so she is inferior to man
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 00:19:07 -0700

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woman is created from adam's rib so she is inferior,and her real place is home not outside.do yr job of producing kids well,and pleasing yr husband else u will burn in hell forever when yr husband has wine and houries 24x7.hahaha!!!!!actually there is no god/allah nature is truth,and its upto u women to break yr bonds.dont depend on men,its natural rule that the stronger will dominate the weak,so its yr duty to get stronger and create yr own space in the world.all rleigion r male dominated and always treat women like shit.


Name: anyone can make a webpage on indya.com...so whats abt it ?
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 01:38:52 -0700

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anyone can make a webpage on indya.com...so whats abt it ? even pakis men who dont want truth to be exposed will do this.


Name: Naji ben Naji
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 03:53:45 -0700

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YOU WOMEN NEED TO CARRY A SHARP KNIFE OR HAT PIN! AND STAB THE FIRST, SECOND, AND THIRD BASTARD WITH IT! AND EVERYONE AFTER THIS! IF ALL THE WOMEN CARRIED THIS PROCEDURE OUT THEY WOULD BE SCARED TO DO ANYTHING AND WILL GIVE YOU RESPECT WHICH THEY WERE NEVER TAUGHT FROM THEIR TERRORIST LOVING PARENTS! MUSLIM SOCIETY WILL APPLAUD YOU AND SEND THEM TO PRISON TO BE TOUCHED, GROPED AND RAPED BY THEIR OWN KIND!


Name: FATIMA, A MUSLIM WOMEN
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 03:59:15 -0700

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ALL WOMEN MUST DEFEND THEMSELVES AND CARRY KNIVES LIKE THE MUSLIM MEN DO. AND SEND THE MEN AWAY WITH AND EXTRA WHOLE, SO THEY CAN BE SATISFIED IN PRISON! AFTER THEY ARE PUBLICLY HUMILIATED !


Name:
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 04:09:00 -0700

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Burqa don't protect from sexual assaults in Muslim countries. Women still invite it. We cover our private parts using protective clothes. Islam considers woman as a private part from head to toe. Woman is a big dick which they cover using a protective cloth the hijab. Even wearing protective clothes cant protect her from the phedophile mohammeds army of sex crazed men. He has set the best example during his existance for these retards to follow. So as a mental retard tells below go with a body gaurd where ever u go. Your ISLAM sucks.


Name:
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 05:30:55 -0700

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Muslims and their cult treat women as slaves, just sex-slaves - that is why they are so paranoid about their women wearing the ugly sack 'burqa' and in Saudi Arabia , a woman cannot venture out alone without being harassed by their so-called 'religious police' and also the imminent danger of getting raped/molested , for which the onus is put on the woman and given the barbaric punishment of 200 lashes by a staff/whip in public view. The women are too petrfied to complain if they are raped because they have to produce 4 witneeses to the incident ,or else it may be 200 lashes or stoning to death in a public square for them. So much for islam giving respect to women! It is the most barbaric cult by a fake 'prophet' and a cruel and sadistic bogus deity called Allah.Women can be beaten by their husbands at will, divorce them at willand women are made to be at the mercy of men. Yet the stupid muslim women avow that islam has given them 'honor'!


Name: Walter Sieruk
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 08:09:41 -0700

Comment

The above article shows what kind of results the religion of Islam has on its believers. After all. Jesus did teach "by there their fruits ye shall know them." - Matthew 7:20. [KJV]


Name: PROOF THAT QURAN COMMANDS MUSLIM MEN TO BEAT THEIR WIVES
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 10:08:44 -0700

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This is proof that quran allows husbands to beat their wives. Quran Sura 4:34 Men have authority over women because God has made the one superior to the other, and because they spend their wealth to maintain them. Good women are obedient. They guard their unseen parts because God has guarded them. As for those from whom you fear disobedience, admonish them and send them to beds apart and beat them. Then if they obey you, take no further action against them. Surely God is high, supreme. Dawood[2]


Name: Amina be happy they only groped you
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 11:14:26 -0700

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Amina : Be happy they only groped you, they did not kill your father and brothers and raped you, your mother and sisters. That is what your most beloved prophet Mohammed did to innocents, he killed them distributed their women and raped them. And your Allah gave his blessings to his killings and rapes in aya 33.50.


Name: Incridiable India!!!!
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 12:10:29 -0700

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A random sample of 28 out of 86 brothels along the G. B. Road in India revealed that almost 60% of the prostitutes were children. The law does not punish prostitutes who are older than 18 and do not solicit business publicly, but it does punish running a brothel, living on the earnings of prostitutes, procuring or inducing people to become prostitutes, and soliciting in public places. The law, which is mostly used to harass prostitutes, invokes penalties of imprisonment for procuring or trafficking and for forcible detention for the purpose of prostitution while creating a special police force to stop trafficking, special courts to deal with cases, and protective homes for "rescued" girls. The law fails to punish clients or make provisions for the rehabilitation of rescued women. Offenses rarely end in convictions. In fact, police officers extort money from traffickers, prostitutes, and madams and abet the system of prostitution through a scheme of false registration of the girls that creates the fiction that they are not minors and creates a debt paid by the madams that places the girls in virtual bondage. There is a set rate for police bribes, depending upon the size of the brothel. Police also are clients themselves and/or extort money from clients. When arrests are made (to make police records look good), police deliberately target adult prostitutes instead of the minors because it is harder to get the minors released back into prostitution. The police are reluctant to release records about prostitution and are complicit when madams present false affirmations that they are relatives of minor girls to get them released from juvenile remand homes. The girls are recruited from impoverished families in the countryside who are paid for giving their daughters in false marriages.


Name: Change ,before you are finished
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 13:57:49 -0700

Comment

http://fractalenlightenment.blogspot.com/2008/01/students-shot-in-america-woman-molested.html


Name: poor muslims
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 13:58:58 -0700

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The quran says that women are to be treated like domestic animals – I think they are just being good little muslims. Until you give up on this crazy, perverted, recorded record of mohammad the pedophile I think you should ask your harassers to go find a young boy to fondle or bend over and take it like a sheep.


Name: scrutator
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 16:18:06 -0700

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Amna, I was moved on reading your account. Yes, a lot of sexual exploitation of women goes on in Pakistan and all other muslim countries, but women have no recourse but to keep quiet about these. The thing to do would be to come out of Islam and live life in a dignified way.


Name: Balam
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 16:34:29 -0700

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Amna Gilani, I admire your courage and honesty in writing this wonderful article. Slowly, the curtain is coming off and exposing the true face of Islam and its followers. Mohammad called them the best people and their behaviour proves to be just the opposite. Mohammad must have been deluded to have made such complimentary remarks about his followers. No woman's honour is safe with Muslim men around. Following in the footsteps of their prophet, they do not feel ashamed or guilty when committing such degrading acts. It's quite common in Pakistan for Muslim men to abduct and gang-rape Christian and Hindu girls because they know they will not be touched in a Muslim society. The west has done itself a great disservice to let these depraved people enter their countries. Muslim men wear beards, Islamic caps and satanic black mark on their forehead to claim holiness. In fact, they are basically evil. Bottom pinching, groping and raping of women is quite common in Saudi Arabia, the birth place of Mohammad and Islam.


Name: Muslim denial
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 18:37:50 -0700

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Despite the mounting evidence Muslims still insist Islam 'gives women unparalleled respect'. Puhleeze, who believes that?! (Incredibly a few still do, but only the most naive.)


Name: lack of islam in Pakistan is the reason why women are abused?!
Date: Thursday August 07, 2008
Time: 20:26:53 -0700

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WHAT AN ABSURD STATEMENT! Pakistan is so muslim that they have shariah law! No, the opposite is true:THE MORE ISLAM A COUNTRY HAS THE WORSE IT IS FOR WOMEN! WOMEN WEAR THE UGLY TURKA THERE AND STILL ARE PINCHED, ASSAULTED AND RAPED BY MUSLIM THUGS!


Name: To the fucken Bastard Editer, why do you delete comments if you have guts and truth?
Date: Friday August 08, 2008
Time: 09:35:00 -0700

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Name: The editor is a Hindu cultist and any thing against Hinduism the bastard wipes it off!!
Date: Friday August 08, 2008
Time: 09:38:43 -0700

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Name: Re-- The editor is a Hindu cultist and any thing against Hinduism the bastard wipes it off!!
Date: Friday August 08, 2008
Time: 10:38:43 -0700

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Name: Isn't it funny?!!!
Date: Friday August 08, 2008
Time: 10:39:08 -0700

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Isn't it funny that when confronted with the facts of islam's abuse of women and it's own holy book's endorsement of the mistreatment of women that the muslim will try to ignore that by looking at what is happening in other countries? Yes, it is a smame at what is happening in India AND IF A 16 YEAR OLD GIRL CAN BE MARRIED IN KENTUCKY THAT NO WHERE NEARS MOHAMMED FORCE MARRYING A 6 YEAR OLD GIRL HAVING SEX WITH HER 3 YEARS LATER! THE KORAN,MOHAMMED,ISLAMIC SCHOLARS,ISLAMIC COMMENTATORS AND HADITHS ALL ENCOURAGE THE ABUSE OF WOMEN! The hindu vedas and the Bible don't!


Name: ONE HAS TO WATCH!!!
Date: Saturday August 09, 2008
Time: 03:54:51 -0700

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http://www.forgotten-gamer.com/forums/lofiversion/index.php/t49235.html


Name:
Date: Saturday August 09, 2008
Time: 12:55:57 -0700

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The above is disgusting but Mohammed force-marrying a 6 year old girl and having sex with her three years later is even more disgusting!


Name: Hadith #301/etc
Date: Saturday August 09, 2008
Time: 19:12:34 -0700

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(as quoted by Bukhari):'O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of hell-fire were you(women). Dr. Buti(on sura 3:13),"God regarded women as the first ranking lusts which He placed in the way of mankind...The woman then is absolutely the greatest affliction in a man's life." (women's rights my butt!)


Name: that's all fine, but...
Date: Sunday August 10, 2008
Time: 14:15:55 -0700

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That's all fine, BUT: 1)The koran DOES promote wife beating(4:34) 2)The koran DOES promote bloodshed against the infidel(many passages indicate this and mullahs around the world even admit this. To say it doesn't you must think you are better than the mullahs). 3)The koran DOES demeanor women(two women's testimony vs. one man's-sura 4:11). 4)Hadiths tell us what islam and mohammed truly thought about women and taught. 5)Mohammed himself forced married a 6 year old girl? Why is it when someone speaks the truth about mohammed you threaten to kill them? It shows that you are on the defensive when it comes to mohammed. 6)Muslim restaurant owners and pastry owners have been caught in US and Britain placing feces in their food! Defend that!


Name: Mussa
Date: Sunday August 17, 2008
Time: 11:45:54 -0700

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You get some training ,then go with clubs ,but in an orgenised way so the attacer will not know it's more the one girle .Once you crack some heads you'll get more respect.


Name: Richard
Date: Wednesday September 03, 2008
Time: 15:21:28 -0700

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Get to a larger city, where there is some law and order. Or leave the country. This is just sad.


Name: sam
Date: Wednesday September 03, 2008
Time: 21:27:56 -0700

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blaming islam is wrong those who quote quranic verses didnt quote the whole sentences and the theme of that verse, and as far as sexual asault is concern it happens in every country of the world including "worldpower".this is a men dominating society and women who tolerate that is making it worse. islam gave maximum rights to a woman as a daughter,sister, wife and mother as compared to any religion of this world.


Name: blind
Date: Tuesday September 09, 2008
Time: 09:44:11 -0700

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burqa is very importent in islam.


 
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